Then she uses that information against them. He was always an atheist person who would always take p**s of me, my sis and my mum when we would go to church and give donations. She balances that by verbally skewering and humiliating people. Break out of your shell and be the life of the party. Lying from the little things to the big things, both white lies to black lies. Guys you are reading an article about the DARK SIDE of Libra, of course you are going to read a lot of bad things! My experience with libras is dark. We read articles books and stuff that interests us to gain a better understanding about ourselves and others, so we can become good at observing people and have a fair (that's a questionable statement) judgement in situations. I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. That would be my control issue. I married a Libra male for 6 years I was lucky to get only 1 year of child support out of him. She may be selfish, but this is not meant to be neglectful or abusive. I was so offended. Get An Accurate Prediction Today, The Best (And Worst) Zodiac Compatibility For Each Sign. I have a stellium in libra sun moon mercury venus and they are all in the 12th house. Sadness and depression can take a big toll on Taurus. Lets not forget Vladimir putin ffs! They're short-tempered and needy and are prone to turning themselves into a martyr if they know it'll help their cause. Do Libras hide their emotions? I have good traits, and some of those bad traits, am I happy with them?! A lot of Librans a prone to having gallstones, kidney and dental problems. Do you not see that you are putting energy into pulling people down, which will surely circle back, hurting you and those you love? Cancer. Im a confrontational Capricorn and tell it like it is. (tall, thin, blond). 2. Libras tend to bottle up their feelings for an extended amount of time and then explode, sometimes inappropriately. Am I going to take out all my frustrations on my wife and kids even???? I am the oldest daughter in my family I have 2 Libra sisters they only see their pain, their personal gain. This may be due to the fact that they are considered the "peaceful" sign of the zodiac, or because they are taught from a young age to keep their feelings hidden. We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. My family and friends are being very supportive while my lover soon to be my ex is just busy with his new job. Freaking true to the core. So don't take the (general) layout of the Libra to heart, it's only one sliver of what variations there can be about the Libra. Pro Libra tip: let go of your high expectations and unreal fantasies, life will become a lot more easier. Eventually I got tired of playing cat and mouse with him and his uncertainty that I tried to call it quits. Because I can't see positive future at some point. When they do good they want that pat on the back. A Libra mom still reminds her 50-year-old daughters to say thank you.. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. Sometimes I forget to get that information. One day, a Libran aquaintance (the now ex fiance of my partner's friend) tried to contact my partner one Christmas with a flurry of dramatic txts and voicemail as her fiance had dumped her. If someone pulls a trigger I'll definately explode and make their life miserable because they get what they deserved. there was no pleasing her no matter what i did. So one must learn to defend themselves from harmful emotions. LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. You should have gone to the shrink when he asked you to! Let him ask a few questions that were way out of line before lost my temper & told him to plz back the hell off. This helped. And then there are the decans of each zodiac sign, in which will defer from each other but still be somewhat the same of each other. Im dealing with a libra mom. It was an extremely difficult task. Dont tell libras your secrets or anything. We expect people to act gracefully and with consideration of one another.we hate people that act like mindless brutes and we can not stand those that take advantage of others for their own gain. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. She was very kind, gracious and loving when she met my children, giving them a few minutes and taking time to talk with them, and she remembered them when meeting her again the following year. All that is written is so true. I must agree with fellow commentors that your distaste for this sign is merely a reflection of your own negativity and distorted observations. Nosy and users of others' lives. When it comes to our fakeness, I put on a smiley face on every single freaking morning even if dying inside, because it's not fair to people who surround me. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. I searched out an article like this to better understand myself. The men. They don't do petty gossip; instead, they pride themselves on being a person people can confide in. "Aries isn't good at compromise, so they may break up with Libra over this." Libra Woman. This is VERY VERY INACCURATE. Libra is hopelessly disillusioned with her own actions & behaviour. I have known other Libra women too. When she shares her feelings with you, be certain to show her that you are willing and able to provide her emotional and intellectual support. He also wanted an apology for every thing I said so we broke up after he exploded with me and I told him off in no uncertain terms. I don't even let libras or those with venus or mars in libra close to me. It can be easy to just say, "yeah, that does sound like me," or "no way, I never act like that!" Stressful situations in general can make Libra very neurotic and testy. Hi everyone, I am a Libran that you guys are bad-mouthing/talking about. People themselves don't know what drives them. I used to not believe my own sister could be so mean spirited, but I wised up and will never trust my sister again. he is a great father and husband. Because the same person who, held your hands, hugged you and said everything will be ok we're going to get through this together, will be the same person who tells your weak, thats why these things happen. When sadness tips that balance. It took Libran baseball idol Mark McGwire (Oct. 1) five years to confess to using steroids. Ive tried to reach him but he wont answer. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. My partner and her don't have a friendship. We were staying in a very beautiful hotel and this was Christmas Eve. ( baring in mind her parents live 5 minutes from her home and she's close to them, she alledges to have 2 childhood friends who live near her too.. she didn't turn to them.) They cant get enough of the sugary stuff. 10/17 libra seeking balance on September 06, 2016: I am a Libra male and lately I have been feeling disconnected from myself(sign). Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. The signs a Libra man is trying to hide his feelings aren't always that obvious but you can't really ignore the fact that he constantly smiles and laughs around you and his eyes are always sparkling when he sees you. This ability to read people allows them to avoid conflict by hiding their true feelings. I, remember all the bad stuff anyone has ever done to me BUT i have a patience of a God. Both can be very friendly, sweet, helpfulbut then they seem to turn on a dime. It's extremely unfair to call Sylvia Browne a fake psychic. She wrote many books, you should read one of them. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. We are the balance of all of the signsthe only sign in all the Zodiac that can bridge the void between each sign and become the great arbitrator of the cosmos (Sound grandiose and pompous..welcome to the world of Libra..but..we all also know it's true ;) ). If you're into astrology and zodiac signs, you know the general personality traits and mannerisms for each sign especially your own. I highly value: integrity, loyalty, honesty, and friendship. They become anxious, isolated, and tend to "feel everything" in an attempt to cope with this giant wave of emotion. The list of behaviors below will help you realize how to make a Libra woman happy. Now I have blocked her on everything & have zero plans to ever speak to this intensely superficial flake as i realize now beyond the woo hoo party thats all she was really good for & coming to this understanding broke my heart. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 18, 2016: Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. They're fairly intolerable to sadness and dissociate from their feelings when possible. The best I could figure is why Mr. Libra 2 was so eager to be with me is. But do love a tennis match with a Libra! Although, they feel pain and are disappointed at their situation, their charm and their ability to maintain a peace of mind gets them to move on and find someone who can heal their broken heart. Aug. 18, 2021, 9:03 a.m. the least balanced sign. If peace cant be had, silence and secrets will do. I avoid it like the plague. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. However, when she is under emotional stress, it is likely that she will begin to feel uncertain or confused about decisions that she has previously made. However if we recognize triggers - then it stands to reason that we can develop better coping mechanisms. A lot of u on this site say too much. I have my absolutely awful moments when I break someone's trust, when I hurt someone's feelings, and try to control everything and act like it's not my fault. It's true. I had left him. Ive been so bad to you all this time. The more articulate Libras will quote Gandhi: Hate the sin but love the sinner., George Zimmerman, killer of Trayvon Martin (Oct. 5). I don't particularly like this post but that's because it just doesn't fit me personally. Some of you seem quite bitter and let your insecurities show by bashing Libras. Ive been with a Libra since aug 2018 and b4 that i was with a mental scorpio. Diplomatic, graceful, charming and even witty! Normally with a libra when they have a fight with a friend they think they cant trust anyone but when the tears stop they over think and the tears come back but its best to let them be and most likely they will forgive you after and it might become a cycle that they cant stop unless people treat them differently, Libras are very nice,loyal,friends that will STAY by your side once you are very close friends the first couple steps with a libra might be hard for them because they find it hard to talk to new people they would rather stay near someone they know, Yes the rumours are true 100% libras HATE being alone they cant stand it that they will either 1.turn it into emotions and cry because they are sensitive 2.they will either do anything to not be alone but if they get left alone with no one for a while they will begin to over think and trust NO ONE at all 3.sit there and think a lot about the situation, The bad side of a libra I already know they do lie but the main 3 reasons why is because 1.they dont want to be embarrassed 2.for there friendship they will lie 3.they will lie to stop anxiety and overthinking another big thing they might lie about is definitely emotions they will either not want to talk and say they are great when they are 100% not to stop people from thinking they are to sensitive or say they a great when they are not to make the other person not worry about them, If you have a libra friend and they are controlling then Im not sure what you can do but things what you should NOT do is 1.talk over them 2.if you yell at them or be aggressive in any way they will either fight back EXTREMELY HARD or cry because they feel like they are a bad person 3.dont tell them to stop crying and being emotional because it will make it worse also it will make them try not to cry that it hurts so much that they do cry what you should do is 1.be very positive and calm and tell them nice things the way to tell them they are doing the wrong thing is to speak very calmly and take it slowly and after make sure they are ok and engorge them to be positive, A libra Leo,Gemini and a Scorpio will go really bad it might be good but it will end up extremely bad but I hope this helped you just know that libras are full of emotions and love anywhere and everywhere. Users and liars thats what the majority of librans have been to my knowledge. They will REFUSE to listen to what you have to say if you are very outspoken person. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. They may feel so lopsided, they'll stop caring about their favorite things, even severing ties with their passions completely. The list below will give you insight into how a Libra woman may act when sad. Libras Are Trusting & Trustworthy Because they're all about trust. You want to see fire, you'll get the air ripped from your sales! When Gemini gets depressed, their mind starts to wander and they over-think everything. Try doing that for a day lol. A Libra woman may choose to no longer focus on aspects of her life that she once valued. TRY ME!!! I am a few years late in reading your amazing and very poignant article regarding The Dark Side of Saccharine Libra, but I am soo glad I found it. I was a fool sheltering her from all her accusers but they were actually right all along. (1) his sister's name is completely different than mine. Im scorpio. But when with him, its a real fight not to let myself go to that dark, vindictive, ruthless place. This may cause her to decide that she should abstain from making major decisions. Thank god i did not give up my apartment! Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. When she is overcome by sadness or melancholy, it is certain that her emotions will have a drastic impact on the choices that she makes. When the fact of the matter is, they no fodder to throw back. Hero though he was, Gandhi ignored his wife, refused to send his sons to college, and disowned his eldest because he married instead of being chaste. I ended all contact. This is also called sosiopathic. I think the problem is that you were too selfish and judgemental instead of taking the time and making a genuine effort to get to know and understand a Libra better, you chose to ASSume, criticize, demean, and judge someone you never really got to know. I am taurus with a highly aries dominance,and i just want to puke thinking about libras utterly shameful fakeness. Becayse they like gossip so much, leave her dry with nothing to talk about. Remember Libras hate conflict, but they will not tolerate cruelty happening when they can put a stop to it. Tell you sad stories, tell you that you knows them better than themselves, that you are their savior. I, do want to move out with my boyfriend because i have problem. I am a lion. Very well. Transmuting the energy behind the thoughts and words of your ranting into energies of Love and Light is as simple as asking the Universe to do it. She avoided me like the plague, lol. As a result, you hide your sadness, fear, frustration, and other so-called negative emotions. Im a gemini. Im married too a Smokin Hot Libra MILF Shes a handful to deal with has a nasty attitude only directed at Her Husband Mevery controlling but Im a handsome Pisces I can deal with anybody or anythingWhen She does make Love Shes a Credit too Her Gender. . I was shocked at how "fake nice" my Libra college professor (who was also my advisor for a college club) would talk SH*T about other professors, administrators and anyone who seemed to have a "higher position" of authority than her. Yes I do get angry and yes I get angry a lot sometimes. You may want to look in the mirror first. This can be dangerous for Libra when it comes to relationships, as they tend to put the needs of their partner above their own, especially Libra men. Aries tends to go all out when it comes to feeling sad. Libras are level headed and tend to think through all things rationally, but when their heart is broken, things can change. I know a libra and she is very controlling. So.. (how do I express myself without sounding like a total Libra) I would love to discuss some of the points of this article just to shine light from the PERSONAL perspective not to justify our behaviour, not to disrespect other points of views, but just to try and explain. We are not too bulgar to chaos in public. Are Libras logical or emotional? seems the guys dont stay very long wonder why . Candice NY from NYC on December 02, 2018: Libras are great as long as you keep it superficial. Should she begin to treat you in an inappropriate manner, then take the time to learn about what happens when a Libra woman is hurt. TaurusGrounded and steady, this fixed earth sign has more mental and emotional strength than the average sign. I'm a libra myself. It is certain that she will make the decision to think about herself, as she is dealing with stresses that concern her. They cannot be in one relationship and as soon they breakup with you, you will find out they are dating someone else with no compassion of your broken heart. I love so deeply and I treat my man like he's a god hoping to get that amount of attention in return but it never happens. I knew something was ODD when I started getting strange. When these emotions take over, be aware of a Virgo that becomes blunt and oppositional. She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. I really don't think there should ever be an article that claims EVERY libra does such and such.. that's like saying every American likes pizza. I have to invest more time into my life so I can be happy and feel confident and accomplished being in a relationship should amplify my happiness. They are experts at reading people and can usually tell when someone is not ready to hear what they have to say. Its not that I love the Libra guy. I really am reevaluating things now for sure!! Often, they can feel hopeless, but they do try their best to stay happy and composed, if only to keep those around them happy. I dont like drama. we just want you to think you've won. Should you become aware that the Libra woman in your life is sad or upset, be certain that you show her that you are available for support. I DO think everyone else has a brain and feelings. But damn I've definitely never seen an article talking so badly about us Librans! After everything happened I moved on to another relationship and was starting to become happy again. I strongly dislike negativity and conflict. Telling an Aquarius Woman How You Feel: How Do You Do It? 04/13Libra Yes and no as a libra it's easier to show negative emotions than positive it's kinda complicated, we feel things really deeply and are sensitive but we don't really show it much.. the most genuine reactions from us is anger, sadness and anxiety. and YES guess sometimes I lose hope. every sign has a dark side but a libra??? They're not really comfortable with people they don't know, so they are usually pretty shy at first. I can't believe this is how I am? Libras are also the kings and queens of compromise, and they like making peace between others. If Libra is raised by more stabile signs, especially if one of the parents are under the earth sign, they can help then learn to identify the emotions, so even when they don't actually feel the emotion they will understand it. 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